Balance of Social Life
You know me and Marion don't really have much social life and no, we are not complaining either. But it seems as you grow wiser and maturity kicks in especially since we are inching closer to the 30s section we have been having lifestyle change. These days our outing are usually consist of running errands with groceries shopping, buying essentials stuffs for the house, going to scout for a new domestic maid, meeting parent session, going for family orientated outings and yada yada.... is already a way of life.
Let me tell you it can get crazy when Marion schedule clash with other scheduled errands, we have to make a point to forecast what we need to do. Unlike previously we just go with the flow just do whatever needed to be done but nowadays is always making sure we planned out the week, checking schedule that is pretty much for Marion and as for me I'll just try to fit in my schedule into his most of the time. And this sort of deal is the same with many married couple with kids would understand the most.
And we also know that time to socialize with friends are something on a rare occasion, yes not easy coz we always love to hang out with great bunch of friends and we know it's always fun. But yes those are one of those things we no longer can do it on regular basis. But we are so glad to have friends that understand coz majority of them now have their own families. So we do appreciate when they understand that our family and work commitments have put us away from hanging out but with help of technology these days.... staying in contact is definitely not that difficult, especially whatsapp! Oh man I love this app.....
So much updates on what is going on in our lives are easily updated in group chats or even for some lame random jokes are always the best to cheer us up. And Yes Marion's iphone is usually off the hook with the boys on whatsapp and as for me my closest girlfriends are always a text away too. So it's not that difficult for us to have a balanced in our commitments and social life.
We don't deny that it's best to have physical contact with friends but then again time is always an essences for us. We are pretty much happy with what's going on right now. So another step into marriage life we both made some adjustment and glad that we work this understanding well and I know it's not easy but having a common understanding.
So I hope this can share some light on couples who are also like us struggling with time.
If you want to share some thoughts, please feel free to leave down your comment below.
See you on the next entry.
Let me tell you it can get crazy when Marion schedule clash with other scheduled errands, we have to make a point to forecast what we need to do. Unlike previously we just go with the flow just do whatever needed to be done but nowadays is always making sure we planned out the week, checking schedule that is pretty much for Marion and as for me I'll just try to fit in my schedule into his most of the time. And this sort of deal is the same with many married couple with kids would understand the most.
And we also know that time to socialize with friends are something on a rare occasion, yes not easy coz we always love to hang out with great bunch of friends and we know it's always fun. But yes those are one of those things we no longer can do it on regular basis. But we are so glad to have friends that understand coz majority of them now have their own families. So we do appreciate when they understand that our family and work commitments have put us away from hanging out but with help of technology these days.... staying in contact is definitely not that difficult, especially whatsapp! Oh man I love this app.....
So much updates on what is going on in our lives are easily updated in group chats or even for some lame random jokes are always the best to cheer us up. And Yes Marion's iphone is usually off the hook with the boys on whatsapp and as for me my closest girlfriends are always a text away too. So it's not that difficult for us to have a balanced in our commitments and social life.
We don't deny that it's best to have physical contact with friends but then again time is always an essences for us. We are pretty much happy with what's going on right now. So another step into marriage life we both made some adjustment and glad that we work this understanding well and I know it's not easy but having a common understanding.
So I hope this can share some light on couples who are also like us struggling with time.
If you want to share some thoughts, please feel free to leave down your comment below.
See you on the next entry.
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